Today's B2B Buyer Demands Reps that Sell Like Humans, Not Robots

Coaching on how to be more human in sales?

The current market climate has brought about unprecedented challenges for sales teams. The traditional sales approach that relies on cold calling and hard-selling tactics no longer works. Customers have become more discerning and demand a different approach that is focused on building long-term relationships.

The good news is that our friend Andy Paul has written a book titled "Sell Without Selling Out" that helps sellers stop using outdated, ineffective sales methods. He challenges sales organizations to sell in instead of selling out by learning how to listen to what buyers truly want. He reveals the four Sell In pillars that are the indispensable instruments of selling: Connection, Curiosity, Understanding, and Generosity. Everything else he states is mostly a combination of product features, technical specifications and pricing, which your buyers can get from the Internet. What they seek (and deserve) can only come from you: the human seller.

Let's explore each of these pillars and how you can implement them in your sales strategies.

  1. Connection: Building a connection with your customers is crucial to successful sales. It means taking the time to understand their needs, challenges, and goals. It involves listening actively, showing empathy, and communicating in a way that resonates with them.

  2. Curiosity: Curiosity is about asking questions that go beyond surface-level information. It means asking open-ended questions that help you understand your customers' motivations and desires. By being curious, you can uncover their pain points and provide tailored solutions.

  3. Understanding: Understanding is about putting yourself in your customers' shoes. It means understanding their perspective, their challenges, and their desired outcomes. By understanding your customers, you can provide solutions that meet their needs and exceed their expectations.

  4. Generosity: Generosity is about giving without expecting anything in return. It means providing value and building trust with your customers. By being generous, you can create a relationship that is based on mutual respect and benefit.

To develop these skills, sellers need to practice active listening, ask open-ended questions, and show empathy. Sellers also need to be willing to learn about your customers' industries and the challenges they face.

How are the 4 pillars implemented?

Several companies have successfully implemented these techniques in their sales strategies. For example, HubSpot, a leading inbound marketing and sales platform, emphasizes building relationships with customers through education and helpful content. This approach has helped them attract and retain customers who value their expertise and willingness to help.

Sales leaders play a critical role in empowering their teams to sell without selling out. This involves fostering a culture of communication, coaching, and collaboration. It means encouraging your team to focus on building relationships and providing value to their customers.

By implementing these methods, you can ultimately benefit your team or organization. You can build long-term relationships with customers, increase customer loyalty, and ultimately drive revenue growth.

What should you do?

To put these pillars into practice, we suggest starting with a team training session that emphasizes these skills. Set goals and metrics to measure progress and provide ongoing coaching and feedback. By implementing these methods, you can create a sales culture that is focused on building relationships and driving long-term success.

In conclusion, successful sales in today's market require a different approach. By focusing on the four pillars of connection, curiosity, understanding, and generosity, you can build relationships with your customers and drive long-term success.

As sales leaders, you play a critical role in empowering your team to sell without selling out. By fostering a culture of communication, coaching, and collaboration, you can create a sales team that is focused on building relationships and driving long-term success.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Current market conditions make traditional sales methods ineffective. Successful sales teams focus on meaningful customer relationships.

  2. Connecting with customers requires curiosity, understanding, generosity, and connection. Sales leaders can teach their teams these skills.

  3. Connection means building trust and rapport with customers, curiosity means asking thoughtful questions to understand their needs and challenges, understanding means empathizing with them, and generosity means giving without expecting anything in return.

Want to hear more about how you can coach your sales organization on how to be more human in order to increase engagement with buyers as well as their productivity? Listen to the Explaining How “Selling Without Selling Out” Works With Andy Paul episode of The RevEngine™ Podcast where Andy discusses why sales technology has been linked to decreased sales productivity and dives into various factors that can contribute to inadequate sales results. He also emphasizes the importance of high-quality leads over quantity, outlines a human-first approach to selling, and explains how AI and machine learning can help sellers actually increase their productivity - if leveraged correctly. Tune in now for practical advice on improving your sales process and hear insights from "Sell Without Selling Out," based on connection, curiosity, understanding, and generosity.